{"id":1137,"date":"2018-09-24T16:17:25","date_gmt":"2018-09-24T16:17:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antoniocolonna.com\/?p=1137"},"modified":"2026-09-08T19:24:22","modified_gmt":"2026-09-08T19:24:22","slug":"how-to-choose-an-engagement-ring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.antoniocolonna.com\/en\/blog\/come-scegliere-anello-di-fidanzamento\/","title":{"rendered":"How to choose the engagement ring: guide and tips"},"content":{"rendered":"

TheEngagement ring<\/strong> it is one of the most meaningful pieces of jewellery in a couple's history.<\/p>\n

It can be a solitaire, a trilogy, an eternity ring, a diamond ring, a coloured gemstone ring or a completely bespoke piece of jewellery. The important thing, however, is not to treat it as a simple purchase.<\/p>\n

An engagement ring is a promise. That is why it must be chosen with care, bringing together aesthetics, proportions, technical quality, budget and, above all, personal meaning.<\/p>\n

\"Engagement
Choosing the engagement ring accompanies one of the most important moments in a couple's history.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The meaning of the engagement ring<\/h2>\n

The symbolic value of a Engagement ring<\/strong> It is enormous. We are not just talking about a precious jewel, but a visible sign of a promise, desire, plan and mutual choice.<\/p>\n

Traditionally the diamond is the stone most associated with this type of ring, because it evokes durability, light, strength and continuity. But one must not confuse tradition with an absolute rule.<\/p>\n

A diamond can be a wonderful choice, but it is not the only possibility. Sapphire, aquamarine, ruby, emerald or other gemstones can become just as meaningful when they are tied to the person who will receive the jewel or to the couple's story.<\/p>\n

The point is not to choose \u201cthe right stone\u201d in the abstract. The point is to choose a piece of jewellery that is consistent with the person who will wear it.<\/p>\n

Where do you put the engagement ring<\/h2>\n

According to Italian tradition, the engagement ring is worn on the\u2019cancellation of the left hand<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

This custom is often linked to the ancient belief that a vein ran directly from the left ring finger to the heart. From a scientific point of view, this is not the case, but the symbolic value has remained extremely strong.<\/p>\n

The ring, with its circular shape, represents continuity, connection and promise. Wearing it on the left ring finger means carrying with you a daily sign of that moment.<\/p>\n

A brief history of the engagement ring<\/h2>\n

The history of the ring as a symbol of promise spans many eras. Ancient civilizations already used rings and precious tokens to communicate belonging, social status, bonds and important milestones.<\/p>\n

In ancient Rome, the ring also began to assume a role linked to engagement and the promise of marriage. Later, in some cultures, the giving of the ring was treated almost as a genuine formal commitment.<\/p>\n

One of the most cited episodes in the history of the diamond engagement ring is that of 1477, when Archduke Maximilian of Austria gave a diamond ring to Mary of Burgundy.<\/p>\n

Much later, in the twentieth century, the diamond became increasingly central to the collective imagination, thanks also to major advertising campaigns. From there, the idea of the diamond ring as the ultimate pledge of love became firmly established.<\/p>\n

But the history of jewellery teaches us an important thing: the most memorable rings are not always the most expensive or the most famous. Often they are the ones tied to a family story, a person, a life milestone.<\/p>\n

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Promise ring crafted in white gold with a natural aquamarine and diamonds, the symbol of a bond destined to last over time.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

How much should an engagement ring cost?<\/h2>\n

One of the most frequently asked questions is: How much should an engagement ring cost?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Over time, many unwritten rules have emerged: one salary, two salaries, a necessarily large diamond, a flawless stone at all costs. But these are commercial simplifications, not serious criteria for choosing a piece of jewellery.<\/p>\n

There is no ideal price that works for everyone.<\/p>\n

The budget must be consistent with the couple's situation, the type of jewellery desired, the quality of the materials, the chosen gemstone and the level of design and craftsmanship required.<\/p>\n

An engagement ring shouldn't put financial strain on the person giving it. Instead, it should represent a conscious, proportionate and thoughtful choice.<\/p>\n

The right question is not just \u201chow much do I need to spend?\u201d, but \u201cwhat do I want to tell with this piece of jewellery?\u201d.<\/p>\n

Diamond yes or no?<\/h2>\n

The diamond remains one of the most popular choices for an engagement ring. It is luminous, durable, elegant and strongly tied to the idea of a promise.<\/p>\n

However, here too we must be careful of clich\u00e9s. A diamond does not have to be huge to be important. Nor is it enough to choose a technically sound stone to get a truly suitable ring.<\/p>\n

Count the overall quality of the design: proportions, setting, security of the mounting, harmony with the hand, style of the person who will wear it and meaning of the jewel.<\/p>\n

In some cases a coloured gemstone can be much more personal than a diamond. In others, a small but well-chosen diamond can have more elegance than a large but poorly proportioned stone.<\/p>\n

\"Corona
Corona ring with a central diamond, designed to enhance the gem's light with elegance and harmony.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Bespoke engagement ring<\/h2>\n

This is where my way of working takes shape.<\/p>\n

A Bespoke Engagement Ring<\/strong> It does not stem from a modified industrial replica. It stems from a story, from listening and from a design crafted around the person who will receive the piece of jewellery.<\/p>\n

It can start from a place, a phrase, a journey, a promise, a memory or a private image of the couple.<\/p>\n

For example, Riccardo wanted to create a ring inspired by the colours of a special place where he would ask his partner to marry him. From that request was born an aquamarine ring tied to the memory of a marriage proposal and the story of their glowing footsteps.<\/p>\n

You can read that story in the dedicated article on\u2019aquamarine engagement ring inspired by glowing footprints<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Here is the point: a ring can be precious because it contains gold, platinum, diamonds or gems. But it becomes truly personal when it manages to hold something that belongs only to you.<\/p>\n

Not just a ring: the engagement piece of jewellery<\/h2>\n

It is true: tradition almost always speaks of an engagement ring. But no rule dictates that the gift must necessarily be a ring.<\/p>\n

In some stories it may make sense to think of a pendant, a bracelet, a pair of earrings or another personal piece of jewellery.<\/p>\n

The fundamental thing is that the piece of jewellery is not chosen at random. It must speak about the person receiving it and the moment you want to celebrate.<\/p>\n

For this reason I prefer to also talk about engagement ring<\/strong>a precious object that can take on different forms, but which must remain faithful to the story that generates it.<\/p>\n

\"Sirene<\/p>\n

How to truly choose the engagement ring<\/h2>\n

Before choosing an engagement ring, I suggest you ask yourself a few simple yet decisive questions:<\/p>\n